"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Babnik

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For dates:

I hate movies because I do not get to talk to the girl.

I hate eating or coffee places because I work out and I learned to eat so I can live (rather to live so I can eat). I eat fast and very healthy.

So, I take them to a park! Its a very close-by clean park with benches, some monuments, statues, and not many people around!

I walk them there and talk to them and then its a good place to make out!



However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Babnik said:
However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
I say that you can do that and more in the park. If you are already going to the park with a chick why not bring in a football or a frisbee and toss it around with her for a bit, or even jokingly tackle her to the ground or let her tackle you to the ground, makes a great kino. Then you can take a blanket and just lie there with her and chill and then make out some more.
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
Nobody cares Babnik.

Go read the DJ Bible and stop asking obvious questions.

If you keep asking stupid and obvious questions like this, which are in every single one of your threads, you will be banned.
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Babnik said:
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
So what's wrong with reading the bible?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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