"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Babnik

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For dates:

I hate movies because I do not get to talk to the girl.

I hate eating or coffee places because I work out and I learned to eat so I can live (rather to live so I can eat). I eat fast and very healthy.

So, I take them to a park! Its a very close-by clean park with benches, some monuments, statues, and not many people around!

I walk them there and talk to them and then its a good place to make out!



However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Babnik said:
However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
I say that you can do that and more in the park. If you are already going to the park with a chick why not bring in a football or a frisbee and toss it around with her for a bit, or even jokingly tackle her to the ground or let her tackle you to the ground, makes a great kino. Then you can take a blanket and just lie there with her and chill and then make out some more.
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
Nobody cares Babnik.

Go read the DJ Bible and stop asking obvious questions.

If you keep asking stupid and obvious questions like this, which are in every single one of your threads, you will be banned.
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
 

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Babnik said:
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
So what's wrong with reading the bible?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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