"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Babnik

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For dates:

I hate movies because I do not get to talk to the girl.

I hate eating or coffee places because I work out and I learned to eat so I can live (rather to live so I can eat). I eat fast and very healthy.

So, I take them to a park! Its a very close-by clean park with benches, some monuments, statues, and not many people around!

I walk them there and talk to them and then its a good place to make out!



However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Babnik said:
However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
I say that you can do that and more in the park. If you are already going to the park with a chick why not bring in a football or a frisbee and toss it around with her for a bit, or even jokingly tackle her to the ground or let her tackle you to the ground, makes a great kino. Then you can take a blanket and just lie there with her and chill and then make out some more.
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
Nobody cares Babnik.

Go read the DJ Bible and stop asking obvious questions.

If you keep asking stupid and obvious questions like this, which are in every single one of your threads, you will be banned.
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
 

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Babnik said:
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
So what's wrong with reading the bible?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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