Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you like my date and hang out ideas?

Babnik

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For dates:

I hate movies because I do not get to talk to the girl.

I hate eating or coffee places because I work out and I learned to eat so I can live (rather to live so I can eat). I eat fast and very healthy.

So, I take them to a park! Its a very close-by clean park with benches, some monuments, statues, and not many people around!

I walk them there and talk to them and then its a good place to make out!



However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJDamage

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Babnik said:
However, I do not want girls to perceive this as a romantic thing like flowers.
I don't take them there because THEY may like it but because the place has all the advantages that I want.

What do you say to this?
I say that you can do that and more in the park. If you are already going to the park with a chick why not bring in a football or a frisbee and toss it around with her for a bit, or even jokingly tackle her to the ground or let her tackle you to the ground, makes a great kino. Then you can take a blanket and just lie there with her and chill and then make out some more.
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
Nobody cares Babnik.

Go read the DJ Bible and stop asking obvious questions.

If you keep asking stupid and obvious questions like this, which are in every single one of your threads, you will be banned.
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Babnik said:
Haven't gotten a single warning, so, please, stop your immature threats.
So what's wrong with reading the bible?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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