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Without being needy
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
how do you handle plates
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Peaks&Valleys
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Strange question. One of the reasons for spinning plates is to keep you from being needy. Once they get spinning, it's the women who seem to become needy.
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Maybe lately ive been spinning quality plates. Perceived quality...fvck...
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Well, if you recognize yourself getting needy then take a step back, put away the phone, and go get another plate.
If you're "spinning" a few chicks that are nothing more than fvck buddies or booty calls then, yeah, it can be difficult to keep from getting needy. In this case, you'll need to find a chick that you actually do $hit with - watch netflix, bring to parties, get something to eat with, etc.
You 'need' to find someone who is more than just a peace of a$$.
If you're "spinning" a few chicks that are nothing more than fvck buddies or booty calls then, yeah, it can be difficult to keep from getting needy. In this case, you'll need to find a chick that you actually do $hit with - watch netflix, bring to parties, get something to eat with, etc.
You 'need' to find someone who is more than just a peace of a$$.
RangerMIke
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This. Never get to the point where you like one more than the others. Also if you ever get to the point where you are jealous that one is seeing other dudes, then it's time to spend less time with her, because you will start to act like a needy b!itch.Peaks&Valleys said:
You have to not care that women you are dating are fvcking other guys... if you can't do this, then you can not spin plates. Because if it's okay for you to fvck other women, then you have to be okay with her doing the same.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.