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Without being needy
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how do you handle plates
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Peaks&Valleys
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Strange question. One of the reasons for spinning plates is to keep you from being needy. Once they get spinning, it's the women who seem to become needy.
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Maybe lately ive been spinning quality plates. Perceived quality...fvck...
Peaks&Valleys
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Well, if you recognize yourself getting needy then take a step back, put away the phone, and go get another plate.
If you're "spinning" a few chicks that are nothing more than fvck buddies or booty calls then, yeah, it can be difficult to keep from getting needy. In this case, you'll need to find a chick that you actually do $hit with - watch netflix, bring to parties, get something to eat with, etc.
You 'need' to find someone who is more than just a peace of a$$.
If you're "spinning" a few chicks that are nothing more than fvck buddies or booty calls then, yeah, it can be difficult to keep from getting needy. In this case, you'll need to find a chick that you actually do $hit with - watch netflix, bring to parties, get something to eat with, etc.
You 'need' to find someone who is more than just a peace of a$$.
RangerMIke
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This. Never get to the point where you like one more than the others. Also if you ever get to the point where you are jealous that one is seeing other dudes, then it's time to spend less time with her, because you will start to act like a needy b!itch.Peaks&Valleys said:
You have to not care that women you are dating are fvcking other guys... if you can't do this, then you can not spin plates. Because if it's okay for you to fvck other women, then you have to be okay with her doing the same.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.