how do you handle plates

[_sideways_]

Without being needy

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Strange question. One of the reasons for spinning plates is to keep you from being needy. Once they get spinning, it's the women who seem to become needy.

 

[_sideways_]

Maybe lately ive been spinning quality plates. Perceived quality...fvck...

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Well, if you recognize yourself getting needy then take a step back, put away the phone, and go get another plate.

If you're "spinning" a few chicks that are nothing more than fvck buddies or booty calls then, yeah, it can be difficult to keep from getting needy. In this case, you'll need to find a chick that you actually do $hit with - watch netflix, bring to parties, get something to eat with, etc.

You 'need' to find someone who is more than just a peace of a$$.

 

[RangerMIke]

Well, if you recognize yourself getting needy then take a step back, put away the phone, and go get another plate.

This. Never get to the point where you like one more than the others. Also if you ever get to the point where you are jealous that one is seeing other dudes, then it's time to spend less time with her, because you will start to act like a needy b!itch.

You have to not care that women you are dating are fvcking other guys... if you can't do this, then you can not spin plates. Because if it's okay for you to fvck other women, then you have to be okay with her doing the same.

 

[Pardner]

Always have enough plates to go around and use them at your convenience.