"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Do you handle a girl like this?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Iceberg

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What do you do with a fat, illiterate, 22-year old with kids, and an ego as big as her waist line?

Ignore her.

Or if I were on POF, I'd insult her just for fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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loveshogun

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TIC said:
What can you do with a girl like this?
Get rid of 5 lbs of bacon in one sitting?
 

Johnnyventana

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Chick's seriously coo coo for coco puffs. She wants an older guy because she knows she can't pull guys her own age. Oh, and she has major daddy issues. So, to answer your question -- run!
 

Gam

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That is one CRAZY b!tch. Definitely the type who's a man hater or gold digger. As to how to deal with her... delete her existence from your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea so I don't need a whale
 

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she's mad at life because she knows she's fat, ugly with kids and worthless, don't waste your time.
 

women haze

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Holy crap STANDARDS.....DO U HAVE IT?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vice

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Can someone email me a screenshot? I'm at work
 
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