"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How Do you handle a girl like this?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg

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What do you do with a fat, illiterate, 22-year old with kids, and an ego as big as her waist line?

Ignore her.

Or if I were on POF, I'd insult her just for fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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loveshogun

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TIC said:
What can you do with a girl like this?
Get rid of 5 lbs of bacon in one sitting?
 

Johnnyventana

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Chick's seriously coo coo for coco puffs. She wants an older guy because she knows she can't pull guys her own age. Oh, and she has major daddy issues. So, to answer your question -- run!
 

Gam

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That is one CRAZY b!tch. Definitely the type who's a man hater or gold digger. As to how to deal with her... delete her existence from your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea so I don't need a whale
 

trrush

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she's mad at life because she knows she's fat, ugly with kids and worthless, don't waste your time.
 

women haze

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Holy crap STANDARDS.....DO U HAVE IT?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vice

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Can someone email me a screenshot? I'm at work
 
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