"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How Do you handle a girl like this?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Iceberg

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What do you do with a fat, illiterate, 22-year old with kids, and an ego as big as her waist line?

Ignore her.

Or if I were on POF, I'd insult her just for fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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loveshogun

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TIC said:
What can you do with a girl like this?
Get rid of 5 lbs of bacon in one sitting?
 

Johnnyventana

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Chick's seriously coo coo for coco puffs. She wants an older guy because she knows she can't pull guys her own age. Oh, and she has major daddy issues. So, to answer your question -- run!
 

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That is one CRAZY b!tch. Definitely the type who's a man hater or gold digger. As to how to deal with her... delete her existence from your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea so I don't need a whale
 

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she's mad at life because she knows she's fat, ugly with kids and worthless, don't waste your time.
 

women haze

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Holy crap STANDARDS.....DO U HAVE IT?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vice

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Can someone email me a screenshot? I'm at work
 
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