"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How Do you handle a girl like this?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Iceberg

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What do you do with a fat, illiterate, 22-year old with kids, and an ego as big as her waist line?

Ignore her.

Or if I were on POF, I'd insult her just for fun.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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loveshogun

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TIC said:
What can you do with a girl like this?
Get rid of 5 lbs of bacon in one sitting?
 

Johnnyventana

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Chick's seriously coo coo for coco puffs. She wants an older guy because she knows she can't pull guys her own age. Oh, and she has major daddy issues. So, to answer your question -- run!
 

Gam

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That is one CRAZY b!tch. Definitely the type who's a man hater or gold digger. As to how to deal with her... delete her existence from your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea so I don't need a whale
 

trrush

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she's mad at life because she knows she's fat, ugly with kids and worthless, don't waste your time.
 

women haze

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Holy crap STANDARDS.....DO U HAVE IT?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vice

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Can someone email me a screenshot? I'm at work
 
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