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Don Juan
brutal! Fat girls can have hot friends. What do you consider fat?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what if it is thursday night :nervous:justiceseeker said:Tell them sorry, but you only go "HOGGING" on Thursday nights.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Depends on what you mean by fat. Some people here may think Scarlett Johansson is fat. Generally, most guys would take average looking + thin rather than cute + fat.Hot Ice Casanova said:LOL you guys are serious about this?
You want to get rid of fat girls that badly? It's simple -Find a wingman who likes them!
Not that I don't enjoy the occasional slim-n-stacked type, but honestly, I LIKE my women with some meat on them. I'd be delighted to take them off your hands, brothers.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
San Jose California said:You know your game is low when a fat girl smiles at you.
Or if any come talk to you at all for that matter.
Ditto. I'll do the same damn thing. I'm 21 and in the Florida/Orlando area.Hot Ice Casanova said:LOL you guys are serious about this?
You want to get rid of fat girls that badly? It's simple -Find a wingman who likes them!
BETTER YET - Email me and if you're in my area, I'll be your wingman. Fat girls - at least HOT fat girls - are my specialty![]()
Not that I don't enjoy the occasional slim-n-stacked type, but honestly, I LIKE my women with some meat on them. I'd be delighted to take them off your hands, brothers.
Yeah, I agree with that. Fat girls usually like the kind of skinny guys that can't get girls. Which means that if a fat girl likes you it's not a compliment at all.San Jose California said:It's different with fat girls. If an "ugly" dude smiles at a hot girl, it's not the same as a fat girl smiling at you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.