Fumbduck
Don Juan
brutal! Fat girls can have hot friends. What do you consider fat?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what if it is thursday night :nervous:justiceseeker said:Tell them sorry, but you only go "HOGGING" on Thursday nights.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Depends on what you mean by fat. Some people here may think Scarlett Johansson is fat. Generally, most guys would take average looking + thin rather than cute + fat.Hot Ice Casanova said:LOL you guys are serious about this?
You want to get rid of fat girls that badly? It's simple -Find a wingman who likes them!
Not that I don't enjoy the occasional slim-n-stacked type, but honestly, I LIKE my women with some meat on them. I'd be delighted to take them off your hands, brothers.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
San Jose California said:You know your game is low when a fat girl smiles at you.
Or if any come talk to you at all for that matter.
Ditto. I'll do the same damn thing. I'm 21 and in the Florida/Orlando area.Hot Ice Casanova said:LOL you guys are serious about this?
You want to get rid of fat girls that badly? It's simple -Find a wingman who likes them!
BETTER YET - Email me and if you're in my area, I'll be your wingman. Fat girls - at least HOT fat girls - are my specialty![]()
Not that I don't enjoy the occasional slim-n-stacked type, but honestly, I LIKE my women with some meat on them. I'd be delighted to take them off your hands, brothers.
Yeah, I agree with that. Fat girls usually like the kind of skinny guys that can't get girls. Which means that if a fat girl likes you it's not a compliment at all.San Jose California said:It's different with fat girls. If an "ugly" dude smiles at a hot girl, it's not the same as a fat girl smiling at you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.