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Don Juan
brutal! Fat girls can have hot friends. What do you consider fat?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
what if it is thursday night :nervous:justiceseeker said:Tell them sorry, but you only go "HOGGING" on Thursday nights.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Depends on what you mean by fat. Some people here may think Scarlett Johansson is fat. Generally, most guys would take average looking + thin rather than cute + fat.Hot Ice Casanova said:LOL you guys are serious about this?
You want to get rid of fat girls that badly? It's simple -Find a wingman who likes them!
Not that I don't enjoy the occasional slim-n-stacked type, but honestly, I LIKE my women with some meat on them. I'd be delighted to take them off your hands, brothers.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
San Jose California said:You know your game is low when a fat girl smiles at you.
Or if any come talk to you at all for that matter.
Ditto. I'll do the same damn thing. I'm 21 and in the Florida/Orlando area.Hot Ice Casanova said:LOL you guys are serious about this?
You want to get rid of fat girls that badly? It's simple -Find a wingman who likes them!
BETTER YET - Email me and if you're in my area, I'll be your wingman. Fat girls - at least HOT fat girls - are my specialty![]()
Not that I don't enjoy the occasional slim-n-stacked type, but honestly, I LIKE my women with some meat on them. I'd be delighted to take them off your hands, brothers.
Yeah, I agree with that. Fat girls usually like the kind of skinny guys that can't get girls. Which means that if a fat girl likes you it's not a compliment at all.San Jose California said:It's different with fat girls. If an "ugly" dude smiles at a hot girl, it's not the same as a fat girl smiling at you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.