i seriously have always wanted a nice long bj. ive never had a proper one before. when i lost my virginity i had like a 10 second blow job but i didn't enjoy it and i was kinda nervous anyway. ive met a lot of girls and had sex since then but some of the girls i tried to get to suck me off werent giving it up that easy. do you guys just put your dik near their mouth or tell them to suck it? or is it a case of just hoping they will do it one day without you asking?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how do you guys get the girl to give you a bj?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
The latest girl that I was with, she asked me "What do you want me to do to you?" I just said "What else can you do with that mouth of yours?" She sure did show me :rockon:
- comic_relief
- comic_relief
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make a fat girl feel sexy :flowers:
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Wash your **** everytime before joining her in bed, you'll get bj's more consistently. Any girl I have talked to is adamant about this: if you haven't cleaned up for a whole day, she won't go down.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well, that's the thing. Unless it's something that they are willing and able to do so, you can't "get them to do it." Unlike all that porn that suggests grabbing her head and ramming your dick into her mouth is the norm, it really isn't. I personally would find it very disrespectful if a woman were to grab my head and guide it towards her pussy in an attempt for me to go down on her. I'll do it if and when I feel like it.LoneWolf said:
It's the same for them. They'll give you oral when they feel like it.
As a side note, the most enjoyable BJs have been from LTRs. They pour their feelings into making me feel good and I, of course, reciprocate later by giving them pleasure. It's a win-win!
