i seriously have always wanted a nice long bj. ive never had a proper one before. when i lost my virginity i had like a 10 second blow job but i didn't enjoy it and i was kinda nervous anyway. ive met a lot of girls and had sex since then but some of the girls i tried to get to suck me off werent giving it up that easy. do you guys just put your dik near their mouth or tell them to suck it? or is it a case of just hoping they will do it one day without you asking?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
how do you guys get the girl to give you a bj?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
The latest girl that I was with, she asked me "What do you want me to do to you?" I just said "What else can you do with that mouth of yours?" She sure did show me :rockon:
- comic_relief
- comic_relief
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make a fat girl feel sexy :flowers:
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Wash your **** everytime before joining her in bed, you'll get bj's more consistently. Any girl I have talked to is adamant about this: if you haven't cleaned up for a whole day, she won't go down.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well, that's the thing. Unless it's something that they are willing and able to do so, you can't "get them to do it." Unlike all that porn that suggests grabbing her head and ramming your dick into her mouth is the norm, it really isn't. I personally would find it very disrespectful if a woman were to grab my head and guide it towards her pussy in an attempt for me to go down on her. I'll do it if and when I feel like it.LoneWolf said:
It's the same for them. They'll give you oral when they feel like it.
As a side note, the most enjoyable BJs have been from LTRs. They pour their feelings into making me feel good and I, of course, reciprocate later by giving them pleasure. It's a win-win!
