i seriously have always wanted a nice long bj. ive never had a proper one before. when i lost my virginity i had like a 10 second blow job but i didn't enjoy it and i was kinda nervous anyway. ive met a lot of girls and had sex since then but some of the girls i tried to get to suck me off werent giving it up that easy. do you guys just put your dik near their mouth or tell them to suck it? or is it a case of just hoping they will do it one day without you asking?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how do you guys get the girl to give you a bj?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
The latest girl that I was with, she asked me "What do you want me to do to you?" I just said "What else can you do with that mouth of yours?" She sure did show me :rockon:
- comic_relief
- comic_relief
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make a fat girl feel sexy :flowers:
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Wash your **** everytime before joining her in bed, you'll get bj's more consistently. Any girl I have talked to is adamant about this: if you haven't cleaned up for a whole day, she won't go down.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, that's the thing. Unless it's something that they are willing and able to do so, you can't "get them to do it." Unlike all that porn that suggests grabbing her head and ramming your dick into her mouth is the norm, it really isn't. I personally would find it very disrespectful if a woman were to grab my head and guide it towards her pussy in an attempt for me to go down on her. I'll do it if and when I feel like it.LoneWolf said:
It's the same for them. They'll give you oral when they feel like it.
As a side note, the most enjoyable BJs have been from LTRs. They pour their feelings into making me feel good and I, of course, reciprocate later by giving them pleasure. It's a win-win!
