i seriously have always wanted a nice long bj. ive never had a proper one before. when i lost my virginity i had like a 10 second blow job but i didn't enjoy it and i was kinda nervous anyway. ive met a lot of girls and had sex since then but some of the girls i tried to get to suck me off werent giving it up that easy. do you guys just put your dik near their mouth or tell them to suck it? or is it a case of just hoping they will do it one day without you asking?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how do you guys get the girl to give you a bj?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
The latest girl that I was with, she asked me "What do you want me to do to you?" I just said "What else can you do with that mouth of yours?" She sure did show me :rockon:
- comic_relief
- comic_relief
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make a fat girl feel sexy :flowers:
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Wash your **** everytime before joining her in bed, you'll get bj's more consistently. Any girl I have talked to is adamant about this: if you haven't cleaned up for a whole day, she won't go down.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, that's the thing. Unless it's something that they are willing and able to do so, you can't "get them to do it." Unlike all that porn that suggests grabbing her head and ramming your dick into her mouth is the norm, it really isn't. I personally would find it very disrespectful if a woman were to grab my head and guide it towards her pussy in an attempt for me to go down on her. I'll do it if and when I feel like it.LoneWolf said:
It's the same for them. They'll give you oral when they feel like it.
As a side note, the most enjoyable BJs have been from LTRs. They pour their feelings into making me feel good and I, of course, reciprocate later by giving them pleasure. It's a win-win!
