i seriously have always wanted a nice long bj. ive never had a proper one before. when i lost my virginity i had like a 10 second blow job but i didn't enjoy it and i was kinda nervous anyway. ive met a lot of girls and had sex since then but some of the girls i tried to get to suck me off werent giving it up that easy. do you guys just put your dik near their mouth or tell them to suck it? or is it a case of just hoping they will do it one day without you asking?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
how do you guys get the girl to give you a bj?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
The latest girl that I was with, she asked me "What do you want me to do to you?" I just said "What else can you do with that mouth of yours?" She sure did show me :rockon:
- comic_relief
- comic_relief
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Make a fat girl feel sexy :flowers:
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Wash your **** everytime before joining her in bed, you'll get bj's more consistently. Any girl I have talked to is adamant about this: if you haven't cleaned up for a whole day, she won't go down.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, that's the thing. Unless it's something that they are willing and able to do so, you can't "get them to do it." Unlike all that porn that suggests grabbing her head and ramming your dick into her mouth is the norm, it really isn't. I personally would find it very disrespectful if a woman were to grab my head and guide it towards her pussy in an attempt for me to go down on her. I'll do it if and when I feel like it.LoneWolf said:
It's the same for them. They'll give you oral when they feel like it.
As a side note, the most enjoyable BJs have been from LTRs. They pour their feelings into making me feel good and I, of course, reciprocate later by giving them pleasure. It's a win-win!
