"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you guys deal with "I have a boyfriend"
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Some of my good lines that have treated me well are "I didn't ask if you have a boyfriend" and "I hope he didn't ruin the way you think of all other guys " then u throw a wink in there. Another risky line is "Good i got 2 girlfriends you need to catch up wink" thats about all I got but that upgrade line is good.
This has worked for me over the years if a woman brings up "I have a boyfriend" early in the interaction:
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HER: I have a boyfriend
ME: *LAUGH*
HER: Whats so funny?
ME: You. I wasn't trying to pick you up. You seemed friendly, I think you would make a good friend.
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When done right the change is instant. Its like flipping a switch. You can see it in the eyes, shock! She aint ever heard this before.
Within a minute the woman is usually trying to prove herself to me.
Of course, you need good solid game and confidence to reverse the tables like this. If your body language is off women won't buy what you are saying.
The hotter the woman the better this stuff works.
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HER: I have a boyfriend
ME: *LAUGH*
HER: Whats so funny?
ME: You. I wasn't trying to pick you up. You seemed friendly, I think you would make a good friend.
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When done right the change is instant. Its like flipping a switch. You can see it in the eyes, shock! She aint ever heard this before.
Within a minute the woman is usually trying to prove herself to me.
Of course, you need good solid game and confidence to reverse the tables like this. If your body language is off women won't buy what you are saying.
The hotter the woman the better this stuff works.
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I usually just say "that's ok, I'm not the jealous type!" or "oh good, the three of us can go out for breakfast in the morning!"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
heres what that is. her and her boyfriend have been doing it the same way for years/months. shes bored and wants to change it up but he just wants to bang and take a nap afterwards. she wont leave him but she needs excitement in her life, heres where you come in. she can get her own rocks off simply by using you to fuel that fire she has. now, she doesnt want to have sex with you, because she doesnt want to "cheat"(even though in my book going out to lunch with you, texting you, etc would be enough for me to tell her to fvck off). anyways if she had this animal attraction for YOU, you would have already banged her. shes interested in how you make her feel, not interested in YOU or your penis. this is a new game im encountering too. before long youll get the anti-slut text where she feels bad for what shes done and wont talk to you anymore "because its not right" even though it was never right to begin with. she will just use this as an excuse after shes had her fun at your expense and then itll be back to the bf to patch things up(even though hes clueless about what shes been doing) and she will bake him cookies and continue to play house with him. meanwhile you sit their wondering what the hell happened and feeling like its your fault when its not.CJS said:
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When a girl says she has a boyfriend you could try to flip it on her and get her to possibly start talking negatively about him.
Her: Oh thanks. Sorry I have a boyfriend.
Me: Good for you. How long have you had him for?
Her: a little while.
Me: So when are you two getting married? Has he bought you a ring yet?
If she starts backing off or seems hesitant. Then ask her why she doesn't want to get married to her boyfriend? You could get her to start giving reasons why not and possibly have her bring up negativity/ or signs about him in her mind and work your way in from there. Start by using women's own demands of 'boyfriends' and 'failures' of her 'needs' to bring up doubts in her mind about the one she's dating at the time.
Her: Oh thanks. Sorry I have a boyfriend.
Me: Good for you. How long have you had him for?
Her: a little while.
Me: So when are you two getting married? Has he bought you a ring yet?
If she starts backing off or seems hesitant. Then ask her why she doesn't want to get married to her boyfriend? You could get her to start giving reasons why not and possibly have her bring up negativity/ or signs about him in her mind and work your way in from there. Start by using women's own demands of 'boyfriends' and 'failures' of her 'needs' to bring up doubts in her mind about the one she's dating at the time.
Good call. I actually took the time to get to know her and now things are going pretty well. I don't think she ever actually had a bf. I think she just didn't take me serious. I haven't brought it up, and don't plan to since all is well thus far.Robert28 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Cool I have a girlfriend. We should introduce them so then we can hook up.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Cool, when is the wedding?
Her: Oh umm... we haven't made any plans....
You: Well it can't be that serious then, why don't you give me your number?
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: That's great but I'm not really interested in him. I was more interested in you.
I have personally used all 3 of these lines with much success in the past. Maintain a big smile during the delivery and afterwards waiting for her reaction. Whether she "bites" or not doesn't even matter. She will be flattered at your attempt and you can be proud that you didn't walk away with your tail between your legs like every other guy does in this situation. It shows a lot of character.
In fact I've had several girls fail to "bite" initially only to call me back and give me their number anyway despite having a boyfriend.
You: Cool I have a girlfriend. We should introduce them so then we can hook up.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Cool, when is the wedding?
Her: Oh umm... we haven't made any plans....
You: Well it can't be that serious then, why don't you give me your number?
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: That's great but I'm not really interested in him. I was more interested in you.
I have personally used all 3 of these lines with much success in the past. Maintain a big smile during the delivery and afterwards waiting for her reaction. Whether she "bites" or not doesn't even matter. She will be flattered at your attempt and you can be proud that you didn't walk away with your tail between your legs like every other guy does in this situation. It shows a lot of character.
In fact I've had several girls fail to "bite" initially only to call me back and give me their number anyway despite having a boyfriend.