"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you guys deal with "I have a boyfriend"
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Some of my good lines that have treated me well are "I didn't ask if you have a boyfriend" and "I hope he didn't ruin the way you think of all other guys " then u throw a wink in there. Another risky line is "Good i got 2 girlfriends you need to catch up wink" thats about all I got but that upgrade line is good.
This has worked for me over the years if a woman brings up "I have a boyfriend" early in the interaction:
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HER: I have a boyfriend
ME: *LAUGH*
HER: Whats so funny?
ME: You. I wasn't trying to pick you up. You seemed friendly, I think you would make a good friend.
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When done right the change is instant. Its like flipping a switch. You can see it in the eyes, shock! She aint ever heard this before.
Within a minute the woman is usually trying to prove herself to me.
Of course, you need good solid game and confidence to reverse the tables like this. If your body language is off women won't buy what you are saying.
The hotter the woman the better this stuff works.
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HER: I have a boyfriend
ME: *LAUGH*
HER: Whats so funny?
ME: You. I wasn't trying to pick you up. You seemed friendly, I think you would make a good friend.
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When done right the change is instant. Its like flipping a switch. You can see it in the eyes, shock! She aint ever heard this before.
Within a minute the woman is usually trying to prove herself to me.
Of course, you need good solid game and confidence to reverse the tables like this. If your body language is off women won't buy what you are saying.
The hotter the woman the better this stuff works.
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I usually just say "that's ok, I'm not the jealous type!" or "oh good, the three of us can go out for breakfast in the morning!"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
heres what that is. her and her boyfriend have been doing it the same way for years/months. shes bored and wants to change it up but he just wants to bang and take a nap afterwards. she wont leave him but she needs excitement in her life, heres where you come in. she can get her own rocks off simply by using you to fuel that fire she has. now, she doesnt want to have sex with you, because she doesnt want to "cheat"(even though in my book going out to lunch with you, texting you, etc would be enough for me to tell her to fvck off). anyways if she had this animal attraction for YOU, you would have already banged her. shes interested in how you make her feel, not interested in YOU or your penis. this is a new game im encountering too. before long youll get the anti-slut text where she feels bad for what shes done and wont talk to you anymore "because its not right" even though it was never right to begin with. she will just use this as an excuse after shes had her fun at your expense and then itll be back to the bf to patch things up(even though hes clueless about what shes been doing) and she will bake him cookies and continue to play house with him. meanwhile you sit their wondering what the hell happened and feeling like its your fault when its not.CJS said:
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When a girl says she has a boyfriend you could try to flip it on her and get her to possibly start talking negatively about him.
Her: Oh thanks. Sorry I have a boyfriend.
Me: Good for you. How long have you had him for?
Her: a little while.
Me: So when are you two getting married? Has he bought you a ring yet?
If she starts backing off or seems hesitant. Then ask her why she doesn't want to get married to her boyfriend? You could get her to start giving reasons why not and possibly have her bring up negativity/ or signs about him in her mind and work your way in from there. Start by using women's own demands of 'boyfriends' and 'failures' of her 'needs' to bring up doubts in her mind about the one she's dating at the time.
Her: Oh thanks. Sorry I have a boyfriend.
Me: Good for you. How long have you had him for?
Her: a little while.
Me: So when are you two getting married? Has he bought you a ring yet?
If she starts backing off or seems hesitant. Then ask her why she doesn't want to get married to her boyfriend? You could get her to start giving reasons why not and possibly have her bring up negativity/ or signs about him in her mind and work your way in from there. Start by using women's own demands of 'boyfriends' and 'failures' of her 'needs' to bring up doubts in her mind about the one she's dating at the time.
Good call. I actually took the time to get to know her and now things are going pretty well. I don't think she ever actually had a bf. I think she just didn't take me serious. I haven't brought it up, and don't plan to since all is well thus far.Robert28 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Cool I have a girlfriend. We should introduce them so then we can hook up.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Cool, when is the wedding?
Her: Oh umm... we haven't made any plans....
You: Well it can't be that serious then, why don't you give me your number?
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: That's great but I'm not really interested in him. I was more interested in you.
I have personally used all 3 of these lines with much success in the past. Maintain a big smile during the delivery and afterwards waiting for her reaction. Whether she "bites" or not doesn't even matter. She will be flattered at your attempt and you can be proud that you didn't walk away with your tail between your legs like every other guy does in this situation. It shows a lot of character.
In fact I've had several girls fail to "bite" initially only to call me back and give me their number anyway despite having a boyfriend.
You: Cool I have a girlfriend. We should introduce them so then we can hook up.
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: Cool, when is the wedding?
Her: Oh umm... we haven't made any plans....
You: Well it can't be that serious then, why don't you give me your number?
Her: I have a boyfriend.
You: That's great but I'm not really interested in him. I was more interested in you.
I have personally used all 3 of these lines with much success in the past. Maintain a big smile during the delivery and afterwards waiting for her reaction. Whether she "bites" or not doesn't even matter. She will be flattered at your attempt and you can be proud that you didn't walk away with your tail between your legs like every other guy does in this situation. It shows a lot of character.
In fact I've had several girls fail to "bite" initially only to call me back and give me their number anyway despite having a boyfriend.