picard
Master Don Juan
how do you guys deal with HR women who spy on you?
I have been spied upon by HR since I am a newbie to a company.
I have been spied upon by HR since I am a newbie to a company.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
how do you guys deal with HR women who spy on you?
- Thread starter picard
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Picard,
What is an HR Woman when she's home or abroad?
What is an HR Woman when she's home or abroad?
( . )( . )
Banned
Human resources.
The blight of Western productivity.
Been scolded like a petulant teenager by these self important non productive chocolate and cake eating hens quite a few times now. If you can be bothered you can turn their time wasting, politically correct bullsh!t back on them, they hate it.
The blight of Western productivity.
Been scolded like a petulant teenager by these self important non productive chocolate and cake eating hens quite a few times now. If you can be bothered you can turn their time wasting, politically correct bullsh!t back on them, they hate it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I work part-time for a company, and I just recently got the HR lady workimg for me in one of my businesses.
Now she's under my employ, and I'm quite certain she would hesitate to wring the neck of her golden goose (I have her generously compensated on commision only).
Plus, there is always the spectre of conflict of interest that now hangs over her head. Potential enemy neutralized.
Now she's under my employ, and I'm quite certain she would hesitate to wring the neck of her golden goose (I have her generously compensated on commision only).
Plus, there is always the spectre of conflict of interest that now hangs over her head. Potential enemy neutralized.
picard
Master Don Juan
HR women often walk by my desk peering at me. It is the same woman most of the time.
disgustipated
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2011
- Messages
- 508
- Reaction score
- 28
They do like to meddle.. as if to feel important and part of men's affairs. Ballbusters most of them.
picard
Master Don Juan
disgustipated said:
they meddle with everything and everyone.
5string
Master Don Juan
They are overpaid and pretty much worthless. Spend all their time sending out emails for the upcoming United Way raffle and bake sale.
Talk about a high pressure job!
Talk about a high pressure job!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 16, 2012
- Messages
- 7,423
- Reaction score
- 5,795
Just curiosity but this humar resourches office is made from women only? I mean its like teaching were women toke power?
Also what is their task, I mean the task that officially they do not in reality.
Also what is their task, I mean the task that officially they do not in reality.
picard
Master Don Juan
HR is occupy 100% of women.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Because they are hired spies/hitwomen who pretend to be employee advocates but who are in fact hired guns for the company.
One should NEVER go through HR channels to make a complaint about a boss, even thought they have that fake mechanism in place. They will pretend to "hear your side" with all the friendliness in the world (they want you to spill your guts and incriminate yourself) and then arrange a meeting down the road to "mediate" the complaint. Both HR and the boss will draw up a huge list of complaints they have about you (unbeknownst to you they have conspired together to draw up this list) and put you on warning. You're on your way out at that point.
One should NEVER go through HR channels to make a complaint about a boss, even thought they have that fake mechanism in place. They will pretend to "hear your side" with all the friendliness in the world (they want you to spill your guts and incriminate yourself) and then arrange a meeting down the road to "mediate" the complaint. Both HR and the boss will draw up a huge list of complaints they have about you (unbeknownst to you they have conspired together to draw up this list) and put you on warning. You're on your way out at that point.
Atom Smasher said:
100% truth
as an adjunct...have an exit plan the moment you join a company...as a man you will have no allies...none...I run a department of 48 scientists...the moment 1 of them starts to act up in a underhanded way they are canned by me...no excuses no grace period.
in 2012 a company owes you nothing
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.