Murk
Master Don Juan
Whatever you do try to make a woman come every time you bang her (some selfish bangs are allowed and women allow for this too) like marmel said they talk, always, if you're good they will come to you. My spirit animal is marmel.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.