"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you go about fvcking a girl and then all of her friends?

Murk

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Whatever you do try to make a woman come every time you bang her (some selfish bangs are allowed and women allow for this too) like marmel said they talk, always, if you're good they will come to you. My spirit animal is marmel.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nicksaiz65

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Well guys, I went for it and it blew up in my face lol. Happens I guess. Crazy how with my Natural Chad friends they do this al the time but it didn’t work for me.
 

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Well guys, I went for it and it blew up in my face lol. Happens I guess. Crazy how with my Natural Chad friends they do this al the time but it didn’t work for me.
Fortune favors the bold and when it doesn't rejection is better than regret. Can't say I would have done it since I wouldn't want to risk losing the original girl but if it had worked that would be pretty great.
 

mrgoodstuff

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Fortune favors the bold and when it doesn't rejection is better than regret. Can't say I would have done it since I wouldn't want to risk losing the original girl but if it had worked that would be pretty great.
Failure is a necessary component to growth.
 

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Well guys, I went for it and it blew up in my face lol. Happens I guess. Crazy how with my Natural Chad friends they do this al the time but it didn’t work for me.
It usually only works if they don't know you're trying to **** them both and you ''""don't know""" they're friends

Or if they're not friends but rather are """friends""" who compete and backstab and undermine

Or they're like super kinky party girls who like to share and do threesomes or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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