Murk
Master Don Juan
Whatever you do try to make a woman come every time you bang her (some selfish bangs are allowed and women allow for this too) like marmel said they talk, always, if you're good they will come to you. My spirit animal is marmel.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.