"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you go about fvcking a girl and then all of her friends?

Murk

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Whatever you do try to make a woman come every time you bang her (some selfish bangs are allowed and women allow for this too) like marmel said they talk, always, if you're good they will come to you. My spirit animal is marmel.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nicksaiz65

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Well guys, I went for it and it blew up in my face lol. Happens I guess. Crazy how with my Natural Chad friends they do this al the time but it didn’t work for me.
 

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Well guys, I went for it and it blew up in my face lol. Happens I guess. Crazy how with my Natural Chad friends they do this al the time but it didn’t work for me.
Fortune favors the bold and when it doesn't rejection is better than regret. Can't say I would have done it since I wouldn't want to risk losing the original girl but if it had worked that would be pretty great.
 

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Fortune favors the bold and when it doesn't rejection is better than regret. Can't say I would have done it since I wouldn't want to risk losing the original girl but if it had worked that would be pretty great.
Failure is a necessary component to growth.
 

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Well guys, I went for it and it blew up in my face lol. Happens I guess. Crazy how with my Natural Chad friends they do this al the time but it didn’t work for me.
It usually only works if they don't know you're trying to **** them both and you ''""don't know""" they're friends

Or if they're not friends but rather are """friends""" who compete and backstab and undermine

Or they're like super kinky party girls who like to share and do threesomes or something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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