“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how do you get rid of anxiety?

johnny_depp

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Well before you guys start saying go to the doctor and take pills. I dont want to take fuking pills I just if anything want to take natural shyt. This anxiety stuff is really starting to mess up my game. so if anyone here has anxiety what is some things you can do to help yourself out? I actually love talking with people but sometimes I get really fuking paraniod and shyt so please someone help me out. I need it bad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thefonz

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I used to be there, all I can say is that the more you experience and the more you get out there the easier it gets. I had really really bad social anxiety when I was 18-20 but the older I get the more I can deal with those feelings that crop up. You get older and find yourself in the same situations and you slowly begin to release, "what am I worried about, even if I do get nervous no one really cares." I know right now you don't believe that but it's true, you just got to wait it out and whatever you do don't isolate yourself. For now, the 2 things you must focus on are stopping the negative thought patterns in your head and recognize your perfectionistic beliefs as they pop up.

Check out the book "Dying of Embarrasment", this book helped me out a ton and has all the advice about anxiety you'll ever need to get better.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Read the work of Lucinda Basset.
 

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quit *****ing and grow some balls
 
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