"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you get rid of anxiety?

johnny_depp

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Well before you guys start saying go to the doctor and take pills. I dont want to take fuking pills I just if anything want to take natural shyt. This anxiety stuff is really starting to mess up my game. so if anyone here has anxiety what is some things you can do to help yourself out? I actually love talking with people but sometimes I get really fuking paraniod and shyt so please someone help me out. I need it bad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thefonz

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I used to be there, all I can say is that the more you experience and the more you get out there the easier it gets. I had really really bad social anxiety when I was 18-20 but the older I get the more I can deal with those feelings that crop up. You get older and find yourself in the same situations and you slowly begin to release, "what am I worried about, even if I do get nervous no one really cares." I know right now you don't believe that but it's true, you just got to wait it out and whatever you do don't isolate yourself. For now, the 2 things you must focus on are stopping the negative thought patterns in your head and recognize your perfectionistic beliefs as they pop up.

Check out the book "Dying of Embarrasment", this book helped me out a ton and has all the advice about anxiety you'll ever need to get better.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Read the work of Lucinda Basset.
 

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quit *****ing and grow some balls
 
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