B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
being walked all over by some fvcking cvnt? I cannot sleep over it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you get over...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
The date is scheduled for tonight at 10:15 but she will flake and then I will put her in her place.
lamath
Master Don Juan
You are waiting for her tonflake to put her in her place?
How are you gonna do it?
Tbh if in your place i would.not schedule a date with a women i know is gonna flake.
I would just next nothing more nothing less
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Well I'm an unassertive idiot so I'll never get anywhere or learn my lesson. I also need psychiatric help because my thoughts are racing. I'm yearning for sex with a woman yet I hate women because they won't give it to me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I can't sleep, my head hurts, my heart is pounding, I can't concentrate on my studies, I'm gonna get rejected and I won't be able to handle it. I'm a mess. I'm gonna die
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I don't know why I let her change the date from a dinner date to a movie date. She must think I have no balls. Well she's right. I don't. That's why I'm gonna look at porn for the rest of my life and not gonna get disrespected by another woman ever again. I'm very vulnerable because I'm a coward. Women will always degrade me and disrespect me.
Serenity
Moderator
With such negative thoughts it's only going to stay that way. Nobody other than you have the power to change your mind, so on one side if you're determined that you'll fail then so it will be, on the other side you have complete power to turn that around.
Not getting women isn't something to commit suicide over. If you get women you'll wonder why they ever mattered so much, because you'll realize it's not as fantastic as you imagine now.
# I'm yearning for sex with a woman yet I hate women because they won't give it to me.
That's a man talking
When I use the (zero f given mindset), women are more interested.
Also when your b@ll's are this swollen, and physically start to pressure your brain, you smell distressed, and it's a turn off for women.
Go for a h@ppy end massage and release some of these tensions
That's a man talking
When I use the (zero f given mindset), women are more interested.
Also when your b@ll's are this swollen, and physically start to pressure your brain, you smell distressed, and it's a turn off for women.
Go for a h@ppy end massage and release some of these tensions
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
deaderinred
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Does this guy want sympathy or something? Stop being a negative loser and feeling sorry for yourself. Its pathetic.
Some men are born with low to almost non existent EQ, those you call socially awkward.
This doesn't make them pathetic.
This makes them feel frustrated because they can't process emotions or social cues like you do.
Let's just say they're slower in that department but highly efficient in other areas.
Think Einstein, only communicated when he's 4 or 5, socially awkward but he could come up with the theory of general relativity a 100 odd years ago - just imagine what his mind sees that others can't possibly imagine.
But these people were naturally born with low EQ to compensate for their intellectual prowess.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
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AJ84
Guest
Wow, a girl suggests going to a movie instead of the original plan and OP goes from hating women to wanting to kill himself to putting her in her place to calling her a c**t, all before the actual date.
She has no idea of this either and if she did, she would bail faster than the speed of light, rightfully so. I mean if someone has that kind of extreme reaction over a change in venue, what happens when she has to cancel a date or leave a date early because something comes up?
F**k that.
She has no idea of this either and if she did, she would bail faster than the speed of light, rightfully so. I mean if someone has that kind of extreme reaction over a change in venue, what happens when she has to cancel a date or leave a date early because something comes up?
F**k that.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sazc
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I'm willing to bet anxiety is something he deals with daily, he already said he was autistic.
The downward spiral just witnessed seems extreme to the observer but is probably just who he is. No amount of "hey buddy, develop an IDGAF mindset" will probably work here.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Feminism attention *****d 90% of non red pill mens dreams, passions and hope...
Those negative thoughts is the downfall of everything. You see things happening that isn’t even there yet. When you become positive and believe in yourself your confidence will skyrocket and think you can win at anything it shows to women. Stay calm and relaxed. Anyone know if the date happened?? In a different time zone haha.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Not yet
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I shouldn't have let her change the venue. I should have said "Let's stick with my idea so we could talk more and get to know each other better" or something along those lines. But I'm unassertive and therefore should not go out with women because they will walk all over me like this one is. My mother is unassertive and so are her brothers. I inherited it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.