"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have been single for about 10 months and now I am ready to get out there and get another girl. I am open to anything whether its friends with benefits, a girl friend, or a one nighter(never done it).

The problem is that I really don't know how to go about doing it. I don't know how to put myself "out there". All the women I have been in any non friendly relationship with I have met at a social place of some sort or work. I have two really good friends but they both have kids and girlfriends and the chances of us going out with the intent of me meeting someone are basically null.

My choices are to either go out by myself or try online dating. I work full time and I am currently attending school so my time is somewhat slim, but I will make time. I have considered tinder or some other dating app or website, but I feel very funny doing it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Avoid all things online as it's a wasteland out there.

Unless school is all male, I would look at all the school organizations and clubs.

Look for clubs women will tend to gravitate to, like environmental clubs or local green peace chapter. Maybe see if you can help out in a theater production? Think where you wouldn't typically be and women will probably be there.
 
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Tictac said:
If you are busy working and going to school, that means you are in places where women are doesn't it?
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sort of. There are a handful on women in engineering and the ones that are I am not attracted to. I would rather not date a co worker, I have in the past and it proved to be drama.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Online dating is a horrible. Stay away from it. It's filled with women that are sluts or have way to high of expectations. Plus the women to guy ratio is pretty bad. Try to find some friends that are single. Make some new ones or look up some old ones if you have too. I recently have been getting back in the game and also do not have many single friends. As my confidence and balls continue to grow to where they once were, I might even start showing up to bars around 1 am alone to try to get a one night stand. That's always an option for you.
 
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