How do you get out there?

[sociallyanxious]

I have been single for about 10 months and now I am ready to get out there and get another girl. I am open to anything whether its friends with benefits, a girl friend, or a one nighter(never done it).

The problem is that I really don't know how to go about doing it. I don't know how to put myself "out there". All the women I have been in any non friendly relationship with I have met at a social place of some sort or work. I have two really good friends but they both have kids and girlfriends and the chances of us going out with the intent of me meeting someone are basically null.

My choices are to either go out by myself or try online dating. I work full time and I am currently attending school so my time is somewhat slim, but I will make time. I have considered tinder or some other dating app or website, but I feel very funny doing it.

 

[bmp2cpm]

Avoid all things online as it's a wasteland out there.

Unless school is all male, I would look at all the school organizations and clubs.

Look for clubs women will tend to gravitate to, like environmental clubs or local green peace chapter. Maybe see if you can help out in a theater production? Think where you wouldn't typically be and women will probably be there.

 

[Tictac]

If you are busy working and going to school, that means you are in places where women are doesn't it?

 

[sociallyanxious]

If you are busy working and going to school, that means you are in places where women are doesn't it?

sort of. There are a handful on women in engineering and the ones that are I am not attracted to. I would rather not date a co worker, I have in the past and it proved to be drama.

 

[Tictac]

Those people know people.

Start from where you are.

 

[Young OG]

Online dating is a horrible. Stay away from it. It's filled with women that are sluts or have way to high of expectations. Plus the women to guy ratio is pretty bad. Try to find some friends that are single. Make some new ones or look up some old ones if you have too. I recently have been getting back in the game and also do not have many single friends. As my confidence and balls continue to grow to where they once were, I might even start showing up to bars around 1 am alone to try to get a one night stand. That's always an option for you.