thelonewolflegend
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@)advice please
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.zekko said:If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKSmangotot said:If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid. Throw in lack of confidence in there as well.
Are you really 54? I was thinking of setting my age to 98.
Get a good job which pays well as a start.thelonewolflegend said:ok well how do i improve on my social status then i mean this **** sounds like high school but ig uess thats bull**** reality hot girl always ****s popular guy n **** i mean itsz like these women never grow up. How do you get this status?
This is false. I know a male model who hasn't been on a date in a year because he never goes out and so obsessed with himself, making money, his schedule etc.No.Danny said:Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKS
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly. 8ish guys clean up.zekko said:If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
Amen. It's a matter of finding the 8 that is compatible... or accepts you. Time and lots of no's in sight but dont give up.Epimanes said:Why do people think getting attractive girls is black and white? IE: you will only get a hot girl if you do X or Y. Its all preference of the female towards the man trying to attract her.
I have seen 8's (women) with guys that look like shyt. So looks is not everything. All depends on various factors.
I don't disagree with your basic premise. I might rephrase that you would HAVE to be a social retard and a recluse not to get laid if you were a 10. However, I don't believe in 10s.mangotot said:If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.