"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how do you get a hot girl if only way to get hot girl is have one to make them jelous

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your premise of assumptions is wrong.

Best way to get a hot girl is to be a hot guy yourself. Today I noticed I am a 8 so I figure I am going to be swimming in attractive pvssy soon.
 

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If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
 

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zekko said:
If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.

Edit: reached my 10 posts for the day. To answer Yes.Danny below.

Yes you'll get laid but only if you got a social thing of some sort going on. If your lives revolves around only seeing people in streets and shops not much is going to happen. I doubt very few chicks will stop you in the street and pick you up!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mangotot said:
If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid. Throw in lack of confidence in there as well.

Are you really 54? I was thinking of setting my age to 98.
Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKS
 
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ok well how do i improve on my social status then i mean this **** sounds like high school but ig uess thats bull**** reality hot girl always ****s popular guy n **** i mean itsz like these women never grow up. How do you get this status?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
ok well how do i improve on my social status then i mean this **** sounds like high school but ig uess thats bull**** reality hot girl always ****s popular guy n **** i mean itsz like these women never grow up. How do you get this status?
Get a good job which pays well as a start.
 

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No.Danny said:
Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKS
This is false. I know a male model who hasn't been on a date in a year because he never goes out and so obsessed with himself, making money, his schedule etc.

The whole bull**** of improving yourself and women will flock is only partially true. Ive dated beautiful women and had amazing relationships when I was broke and had nothing going for me. I know rich guys who can't get laid to save their life. Dating takes effort and You need to put yourself out there. It also takes some luck (finding the right girl means being in the right place at the right time)

Just put yourself in the best possible position to succeed and whatever happens happens. . That's ALL you can do fellas
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do people think getting attractive girls is black and white? IE: you will only get a hot girl if you do X or Y. Its all preference of the female towards the man trying to attract her.

I have seen 8's (women) with guys that look like shyt. So looks is not everything. All depends on various factors.
 

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Epimanes said:
Why do people think getting attractive girls is black and white? IE: you will only get a hot girl if you do X or Y. Its all preference of the female towards the man trying to attract her.

I have seen 8's (women) with guys that look like shyt. So looks is not everything. All depends on various factors.
Amen. It's a matter of finding the 8 that is compatible... or accepts you. Time and lots of no's in sight but dont give up.
 

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mangotot said:
If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.
I don't disagree with your basic premise. I might rephrase that you would HAVE to be a social retard and a recluse not to get laid if you were a 10. However, I don't believe in 10s.

My point was that I don't believe that even a quarter of the guys who come on here claiming to be 8s really are 8s. If they were, this would be the largest collection of great looking people in one place in the entire world. I'm pretty picky about my ratings, there aren't even that many women that I would give an 8 to.

Anyway, yes I am really 54 lol. Hard to believe that people can reach such advanced ages, I know :) Sometimes I'm amazed myself.
 
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