thelonewolflegend
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@)advice please
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.zekko said:If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKSmangotot said:If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid. Throw in lack of confidence in there as well.
Are you really 54? I was thinking of setting my age to 98.
Get a good job which pays well as a start.thelonewolflegend said:ok well how do i improve on my social status then i mean this **** sounds like high school but ig uess thats bull**** reality hot girl always ****s popular guy n **** i mean itsz like these women never grow up. How do you get this status?
This is false. I know a male model who hasn't been on a date in a year because he never goes out and so obsessed with himself, making money, his schedule etc.No.Danny said:Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKS
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Exactly. 8ish guys clean up.zekko said:If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
Amen. It's a matter of finding the 8 that is compatible... or accepts you. Time and lots of no's in sight but dont give up.Epimanes said:Why do people think getting attractive girls is black and white? IE: you will only get a hot girl if you do X or Y. Its all preference of the female towards the man trying to attract her.
I have seen 8's (women) with guys that look like shyt. So looks is not everything. All depends on various factors.
I don't disagree with your basic premise. I might rephrase that you would HAVE to be a social retard and a recluse not to get laid if you were a 10. However, I don't believe in 10s.mangotot said:If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.