thelonewolflegend
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@)advice please
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.zekko said:If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKSmangotot said:If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid. Throw in lack of confidence in there as well.
Are you really 54? I was thinking of setting my age to 98.
Get a good job which pays well as a start.thelonewolflegend said:ok well how do i improve on my social status then i mean this **** sounds like high school but ig uess thats bull**** reality hot girl always ****s popular guy n **** i mean itsz like these women never grow up. How do you get this status?
This is false. I know a male model who hasn't been on a date in a year because he never goes out and so obsessed with himself, making money, his schedule etc.No.Danny said:Actually I would disagree. If you're an 8+ you WILL GET LAID. OF JUST LOOKS
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Exactly. 8ish guys clean up.zekko said:If every guy on this forum who said he was an 8 was really an 8, there would be no need for this forum.
Amen. It's a matter of finding the 8 that is compatible... or accepts you. Time and lots of no's in sight but dont give up.Epimanes said:Why do people think getting attractive girls is black and white? IE: you will only get a hot girl if you do X or Y. Its all preference of the female towards the man trying to attract her.
I have seen 8's (women) with guys that look like shyt. So looks is not everything. All depends on various factors.
I don't disagree with your basic premise. I might rephrase that you would HAVE to be a social retard and a recluse not to get laid if you were a 10. However, I don't believe in 10s.mangotot said:If you are a social retard and a recluse you could be a 10 and still not get laid.