"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you game girls who can't hold a conversation?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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deadmasterx

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Some of the hottest girls I match with on dating apps are usually the most dumb and dull. Messages barely exceed a single sentence and consist of "what u upto?" or "how r u?" and basic yes/no answers to my questions.

The truth is I never know how to talk to these girls on this level or how to escalate.

When it comes to long term dating or relationships, I wouldn't give these girls the time of day, but I could be missing some amazing one night stands. I've just matched with a stunning blonde on Bumble. She's responding quickly to every message, but saying nothing I can work with.

How do you guys communicate with girls like this? Do you persist and try to get a conversation or do you just go back and forth with the short replies?
I keep in mind that I'm going out or talking with someone to have fun. Which means that I wouldn't spend my time with someone who isn't fun to be around, it would just sound like a waste of time for me, especially because if I get out with her it would be extremely clear that I'm just going out with her to get to **** her. Women can feel these things, you chances of having it are way less if she feel that you're "getting sex from her", as something you want to take from her.

My advice for you is: choose better. Go out with people you enjoy being around. Attaction is not a choice, things escalate effortlessly when you're out with a cool woman that you really enjoy talking and hanging out with.
 

ubercat

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I used to go by gut feel. If they re annoying IVL I assumed they re twice as annoying IRL
 
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