"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you feel about having a girlfriend but still hooking up with other girls?

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I've got a solid, its nice. But I do get curious sometimes and don't tell girls about her, so I can experience some new stuff. Only cheated twice in total, 1 kiss, two handjob, nothing major. I sleep fine at night too. She knows the girls, but has no clue. Would like to keep her away from any girls I do this with though.

Is this "wrong"? She doesnt cheat, but we arent engaged or anything...Im just living life...you only get to do that once right?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sure.

Morally its wrong and you risk the chance of losing your girlfriend if she finds out which she very well could.

Why build an emotional attachment with someone only to self endanger it?

Why not just live Leykis 101 and avoid relationships and just hook up with chicks and have short flings??

Its a lot less hassle with pretty much zero emotional baggage.
 
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KontrollerX said:
Sure.

Morally its wrong and you risk the chance of losing your girlfriend if she finds out which she very well could.

Why build an emotional attachment with someone only to self endanger it?

Why not just live Leykis 101 and avoid relationships and just hook up with chicks and have short flings??

Its a lot less hassle with pretty much zero emotional baggage.
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I was living Leykis 101 very successfully until I fell for someone. Suddenly I was beauty, trustworthiness, good-behaving-christian all in this one girl and I fell for her, while still maintaining my old habits of Leykis 101...

I guess I never broke the habit so I'm emotionally attached while still physically having fun...
 
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Is this "wrong"? She doesnt cheat, but we arent engaged or anything...Im just living life...you only get to do that once right?
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I agree with Kontroller that it's morally wrong, and I don't see the point in having her as your girlfriend if you're gonna fuk a bunch of girls on the side. Very lame. Also, if you're gonna do this kind of low integrity stuff, then to keep it fair you have to be cool with her doing it too.
 
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guywhoneedshelp said:
I've got a solid, its nice. But I do get curious sometimes and don't tell girls about her, so I can experience some new stuff. Only cheated twice in total, 1 kiss, two handjob, nothing major. I sleep fine at night too. She knows the girls, but has no clue. Would like to keep her away from any girls I do this with though.

Is this "wrong"? She doesnt cheat, but we arent engaged or anything...Im just living life...you only get to do that once right?

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you obviously arent ready for a commited relationship. dump the chick and experience all the "new stuff" you want.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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when i was hooking up with other girls, i had this guilt at first. but as i did it with more women the guilt went away and soon after my girl found out and we broke up. did i regret hooking up with those chicks? not really. its a tough question but if you really care for the girlfriend then i dont recommend it. its not good for you or her.
 
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I would say there is some underlying insecurity here if you need to have a GF but you don't really want to commit to her. It suggests that you have a constant need for female validation. discuss.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I was living Leykis 101 very successfully until I fell for someone. Suddenly I was beauty, trustworthiness, good-behaving-christian all in this one girl and I fell for her, while still maintaining my old habits of Leykis 101...

I guess I never broke the habit so I'm emotionally attached while still physically having fun...
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You sound like what we call...a pvssy.

Why do you even have a girlfriend? Really? Why? What do you need this girl friend for? You say you were getting laid, but "Suddenly" you fell under the spell of the woman. Sounds like you're not being honest with us, nor yourself.

You're NOT monogamous, but in a relationship. Why are you even bothering? There is no point to it, if you're not going to be honest with her.

Grow a pair and make a choice.
 
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