Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how do you display sympathy?

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i know when a gf is crying and what not just be a listening rock and dont try to "fix things"

does anyone else have further advice ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well I don't pull out at first but if it is really hurting her because of the size then you might want to pull it out (sympathy part). Don't try to fix things by putting a band-aid down there even if she's bleeding.

A good tip is to cuddle a little with her afterwards so she do not get afraid of you and do not dare to try it again. Making her feel comfortable usually makes it easier if you are well endowed like me.
 
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depends on what made her cry-If I just chewed her azz,let her cry. If it's something trivial, I'd let her know it was overdone. ONLY if it was a serious matter would I hold her and actually just BE
 
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sodbuster said:
depends on what made her cry-If I just chewed her azz,let her cry. If it's something trivial, I'd let her know it was overdone. ONLY if it was a serious matter would I hold her and actually just BE
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Great point. If you are in the right, just let her cry. Don't let her use tears as a weapon.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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