"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do you display sympathy?

vachir

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i know when a gf is crying and what not just be a listening rock and dont try to "fix things"

does anyone else have further advice ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ATP

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Well I don't pull out at first but if it is really hurting her because of the size then you might want to pull it out (sympathy part). Don't try to fix things by putting a band-aid down there even if she's bleeding.

A good tip is to cuddle a little with her afterwards so she do not get afraid of you and do not dare to try it again. Making her feel comfortable usually makes it easier if you are well endowed like me.
 

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depends on what made her cry-If I just chewed her azz,let her cry. If it's something trivial, I'd let her know it was overdone. ONLY if it was a serious matter would I hold her and actually just BE
 

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sodbuster said:
depends on what made her cry-If I just chewed her azz,let her cry. If it's something trivial, I'd let her know it was overdone. ONLY if it was a serious matter would I hold her and actually just BE
Great point. If you are in the right, just let her cry. Don't let her use tears as a weapon.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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