"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do you display sympathy?

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i know when a gf is crying and what not just be a listening rock and dont try to "fix things"

does anyone else have further advice ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well I don't pull out at first but if it is really hurting her because of the size then you might want to pull it out (sympathy part). Don't try to fix things by putting a band-aid down there even if she's bleeding.

A good tip is to cuddle a little with her afterwards so she do not get afraid of you and do not dare to try it again. Making her feel comfortable usually makes it easier if you are well endowed like me.
 
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depends on what made her cry-If I just chewed her azz,let her cry. If it's something trivial, I'd let her know it was overdone. ONLY if it was a serious matter would I hold her and actually just BE
 
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sodbuster said:
depends on what made her cry-If I just chewed her azz,let her cry. If it's something trivial, I'd let her know it was overdone. ONLY if it was a serious matter would I hold her and actually just BE
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Great point. If you are in the right, just let her cry. Don't let her use tears as a weapon.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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