"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you deal with rich, spoiled girls ?

Charisma

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I mean the kind that always got what they wanted, wearing Gutchi this and Ralph Lauren that. Hot as hell, BUT actually quite pleasant.

Just wondering, been looking to break through that force field. They live totally different lives those rich people, un fvcking believable.

I wonder what their bedrooms look like.


Cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't deal with them - period!

If you want to 'play' with them then don't spoil them and have them spoil you - reverse the psychology. Act as if you are the one worthy of such spoil and not her. Bring yourself up to a higher level, she'll see that it is 'you' that is worth the attention and praise and not her.
 

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Well of course I'm not going to spoil them. And what you say is what everybody is thinking, I'm just asking for some less abstract stuff. Like how would YOU play it. Without even considering LTR and all that irrelevant ****, just a night of spanking in the mansion ;)
 
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I would have to know a lot more about the chick. For example, maybe she is extremly interested in 'art' - so I become an expert on 'art' work and the convo goes from there...next thing you know you are in her mansion and she wants to show you her private collection. If you get my drift!:)
 

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Originally posted by Charisma
Well of course I'm not going to spoil them. And what you say is what everybody is thinking, I'm just asking for some less abstract stuff. Like how would YOU play it. Without even considering LTR and all that irrelevant ****, just a night of spanking in the mansion ;)
What exactly do you see as a barrier? You say that they are pleasant so what exactly is making it difficult for you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok I'm not saying it correctly. Forgive me but english is not my language.

I mean, euh, they seem rather cool, but they are so out of touch with reamity (at least the non-rich part of it) that they're just spoiled...

The kind you would never want to have a LTR with, but definately would like to try to seduce and f-close if possible.
 

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regular dj principles apply here, you jsut need to bring your game up a little more than usual to show that you are the man
 

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I have dated rich girls like this, and I find them quiet plesent if they like u. One of my mates is dating a girl like this now, he has been for years and will probably end up marrying her. She is possibly the best LTR material I have EVER seen. NEVER looses her cool, does EVERYTHING for him, even told him to quit his job and she would just give him money to party (of course he did this), and is still not working now. They are no different to ANY girl, they want "love" and a "Don Juan" to take care of them!
 

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Their rooms are very feminine. Their beds are comfortable ;)

Seriously, I think these are great LTR's. A little airheaded sometimes though.
 
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I think some of you fail to realize something. If they are spoiled and rich, most probably they are also very stuck up.

It is kind of a hassle to deal with a really stuck up girl. I've met a lot of these types, with a lot of money.

I don't think it is as easy as trying to bring yourself up a notch in your mind.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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