"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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How do you deal with rich, spoiled girls ?

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I mean the kind that always got what they wanted, wearing Gutchi this and Ralph Lauren that. Hot as hell, BUT actually quite pleasant.

Just wondering, been looking to break through that force field. They live totally different lives those rich people, un fvcking believable.

I wonder what their bedrooms look like.


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Don't deal with them - period!

If you want to 'play' with them then don't spoil them and have them spoil you - reverse the psychology. Act as if you are the one worthy of such spoil and not her. Bring yourself up to a higher level, she'll see that it is 'you' that is worth the attention and praise and not her.
 

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Well of course I'm not going to spoil them. And what you say is what everybody is thinking, I'm just asking for some less abstract stuff. Like how would YOU play it. Without even considering LTR and all that irrelevant ****, just a night of spanking in the mansion ;)
 
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I would have to know a lot more about the chick. For example, maybe she is extremly interested in 'art' - so I become an expert on 'art' work and the convo goes from there...next thing you know you are in her mansion and she wants to show you her private collection. If you get my drift!:)
 

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Originally posted by Charisma
Well of course I'm not going to spoil them. And what you say is what everybody is thinking, I'm just asking for some less abstract stuff. Like how would YOU play it. Without even considering LTR and all that irrelevant ****, just a night of spanking in the mansion ;)
What exactly do you see as a barrier? You say that they are pleasant so what exactly is making it difficult for you?
 

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Ok I'm not saying it correctly. Forgive me but english is not my language.

I mean, euh, they seem rather cool, but they are so out of touch with reamity (at least the non-rich part of it) that they're just spoiled...

The kind you would never want to have a LTR with, but definately would like to try to seduce and f-close if possible.
 

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regular dj principles apply here, you jsut need to bring your game up a little more than usual to show that you are the man
 

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I have dated rich girls like this, and I find them quiet plesent if they like u. One of my mates is dating a girl like this now, he has been for years and will probably end up marrying her. She is possibly the best LTR material I have EVER seen. NEVER looses her cool, does EVERYTHING for him, even told him to quit his job and she would just give him money to party (of course he did this), and is still not working now. They are no different to ANY girl, they want "love" and a "Don Juan" to take care of them!
 

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Their rooms are very feminine. Their beds are comfortable ;)

Seriously, I think these are great LTR's. A little airheaded sometimes though.
 
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I think some of you fail to realize something. If they are spoiled and rich, most probably they are also very stuck up.

It is kind of a hassle to deal with a really stuck up girl. I've met a lot of these types, with a lot of money.

I don't think it is as easy as trying to bring yourself up a notch in your mind.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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