"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you convey "I just want sex"?

Blue Phoenix

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Hi guys!

As I said in another thread, I've passed a lot of girls that were interested in me because I didn't want to date them, I just wanted to mess around. As I don't like the "fuc.k and dump" mentality I preffered to refuse them. The problem is that I feel like I am coc.k blocking myself!

If a girl is interested in you but you just want a FB, not a GF, how do manage that? :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Marlimus

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never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Marlimus
never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
That's a good idea.

Any other suggestion?
 
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Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Become a serial rapist.
Oh yeah, Sub-Unit! :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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