"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you convey "I just want sex"?

Blue Phoenix

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Hi guys!

As I said in another thread, I've passed a lot of girls that were interested in me because I didn't want to date them, I just wanted to mess around. As I don't like the "fuc.k and dump" mentality I preffered to refuse them. The problem is that I feel like I am coc.k blocking myself!

If a girl is interested in you but you just want a FB, not a GF, how do manage that? :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Marlimus

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never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Marlimus
never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
That's a good idea.

Any other suggestion?
 
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Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Become a serial rapist.
Oh yeah, Sub-Unit! :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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