"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you convey "I just want sex"?

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Hi guys!

As I said in another thread, I've passed a lot of girls that were interested in me because I didn't want to date them, I just wanted to mess around. As I don't like the "fuc.k and dump" mentality I preffered to refuse them. The problem is that I feel like I am coc.k blocking myself!

If a girl is interested in you but you just want a FB, not a GF, how do manage that? :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
 
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Originally posted by Marlimus
never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
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That's a good idea.

Any other suggestion?
 
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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Become a serial rapist.
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Oh yeah, Sub-Unit! :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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