"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you convey "I just want sex"?

Blue Phoenix

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Hi guys!

As I said in another thread, I've passed a lot of girls that were interested in me because I didn't want to date them, I just wanted to mess around. As I don't like the "fuc.k and dump" mentality I preffered to refuse them. The problem is that I feel like I am coc.k blocking myself!

If a girl is interested in you but you just want a FB, not a GF, how do manage that? :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Marlimus
never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
That's a good idea.

Any other suggestion?
 
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Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Become a serial rapist.
Oh yeah, Sub-Unit! :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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