"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you convey "I just want sex"?

Blue Phoenix

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Hi guys!

As I said in another thread, I've passed a lot of girls that were interested in me because I didn't want to date them, I just wanted to mess around. As I don't like the "fuc.k and dump" mentality I preffered to refuse them. The problem is that I feel like I am coc.k blocking myself!

If a girl is interested in you but you just want a FB, not a GF, how do manage that? :confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Marlimus
never imply commitment, never try too hard to 'get to know her'
don't ask or even care what her dreams are, how many brothers she has, what her daddy did to her, any **** like that. Just ooze sexuality and seduce.
That's a good idea.

Any other suggestion?
 
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Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Become a serial rapist.
Oh yeah, Sub-Unit! :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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