"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do YOU attract girls with boyfriends?
- Thread starter DJ24SEVEN
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
huge_guy_pimpin
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u mean u wudnt want me to get the girl off u if u had one-itys and was dating other guys?
id be doing u a favour damnit apperciate it !
MRomeo99
Don Juan
A few things that will help.
1. Be like a feather, fun and light. Don't get all serious on them, they have a boyfriend for that. Be a blast to be around, never take anything seriously. If you're not having fun, you're not going to get very far.
2. Never mention the boyfriend. That is her problem not yours. You're going to be tempted to say, "So, what's the deal with Bill" Don't freaking do it. Not your deal, it's all about her.
3. On that note, never ask about yourself. Always assume that she is interested, and she usually will be.
4. Give her the gift of missing you. You'll have a lot more success having her chase you, than you chasing her. She already has something that she can get anytime. The reason why she is attracted to you, is that you are a challenge. Don't forget that.
5. Realize that your mind will play tricks on you. You never like her as much as you think you do. You only like her because you can't have her. Keep that in mind at all times.
6. Have guidelines. Decide where you draw the line, married, separated, live-in boyfriend, casual boyfriend, engaged, etc.
Hope this helps.
Romeo
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Amen dude. Especially when there are tons of hot SINGLE girls out there for the taking.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.