"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do YOU attract girls with boyfriends?

Wiesman44

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If the couple is not having relationship problems, I will not try and take the girl away. There's something called respect guys. Use it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
If the couple is not having relationship problems, I will not try and take the girl away. There's something called respect guys. Use it.
u mean u wudnt want me to get the girl off u if u had one-itys and was dating other guys?
id be doing u a favour damnit apperciate it !:mad:
 

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I wouldn't recommend going after girls with boyfriends, but you'd be amazed what they will do and not think twice about it.

A few things that will help.

1. Be like a feather, fun and light. Don't get all serious on them, they have a boyfriend for that. Be a blast to be around, never take anything seriously. If you're not having fun, you're not going to get very far.
2. Never mention the boyfriend. That is her problem not yours. You're going to be tempted to say, "So, what's the deal with Bill" Don't freaking do it. Not your deal, it's all about her.
3. On that note, never ask about yourself. Always assume that she is interested, and she usually will be.
4. Give her the gift of missing you. You'll have a lot more success having her chase you, than you chasing her. She already has something that she can get anytime. The reason why she is attracted to you, is that you are a challenge. Don't forget that.
5. Realize that your mind will play tricks on you. You never like her as much as you think you do. You only like her because you can't have her. Keep that in mind at all times.
6. Have guidelines. Decide where you draw the line, married, separated, live-in boyfriend, casual boyfriend, engaged, etc.

Hope this helps.

Romeo
 

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Originally posted by MRomeo99
I wouldn't recommend going after girls with boyfriends, but you'd be amazed what they will do and not think twice about it.

A few things that will help.

1. Be like a feather, fun and light. Don't get all serious on them, they have a boyfriend for that. Be a blast to be around, never take anything seriously. If you're not having fun, you're not going to get very far.
2. Never mention the boyfriend. That is her problem not yours. You're going to be tempted to say, "So, what's the deal with Bill" Don't freaking do it. Not your deal, it's all about her.
3. On that note, never ask about yourself. Always assume that she is interested, and she usually will be.
4. Give her the gift of missing you. You'll have a lot more success having her chase you, than you chasing her. She already has something that she can get anytime. The reason why she is attracted to you, is that you are a challenge. Don't forget that.
5. Realize that your mind will play tricks on you. You never like her as much as you think you do. You only like her because you can't have her. Keep that in mind at all times.
6. Have guidelines. Decide where you draw the line, married, separated, live-in boyfriend, casual boyfriend, engaged, etc.

Hope this helps.

Romeo
Yes, it does help. Thanks!
 

ShizamDaMan

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
If the couple is not having relationship problems, I will not try and take the girl away. There's something called respect guys. Use it.
Amen dude. Especially when there are tons of hot SINGLE girls out there for the taking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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