"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do YOU attract girls with boyfriends?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
huge_guy_pimpin
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u mean u wudnt want me to get the girl off u if u had one-itys and was dating other guys?
id be doing u a favour damnit apperciate it !
MRomeo99
Don Juan
A few things that will help.
1. Be like a feather, fun and light. Don't get all serious on them, they have a boyfriend for that. Be a blast to be around, never take anything seriously. If you're not having fun, you're not going to get very far.
2. Never mention the boyfriend. That is her problem not yours. You're going to be tempted to say, "So, what's the deal with Bill" Don't freaking do it. Not your deal, it's all about her.
3. On that note, never ask about yourself. Always assume that she is interested, and she usually will be.
4. Give her the gift of missing you. You'll have a lot more success having her chase you, than you chasing her. She already has something that she can get anytime. The reason why she is attracted to you, is that you are a challenge. Don't forget that.
5. Realize that your mind will play tricks on you. You never like her as much as you think you do. You only like her because you can't have her. Keep that in mind at all times.
6. Have guidelines. Decide where you draw the line, married, separated, live-in boyfriend, casual boyfriend, engaged, etc.
Hope this helps.
Romeo
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Amen dude. Especially when there are tons of hot SINGLE girls out there for the taking.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.