"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do YOU attract girls with boyfriends?

Wiesman44

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If the couple is not having relationship problems, I will not try and take the girl away. There's something called respect guys. Use it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
If the couple is not having relationship problems, I will not try and take the girl away. There's something called respect guys. Use it.
u mean u wudnt want me to get the girl off u if u had one-itys and was dating other guys?
id be doing u a favour damnit apperciate it !:mad:
 

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I wouldn't recommend going after girls with boyfriends, but you'd be amazed what they will do and not think twice about it.

A few things that will help.

1. Be like a feather, fun and light. Don't get all serious on them, they have a boyfriend for that. Be a blast to be around, never take anything seriously. If you're not having fun, you're not going to get very far.
2. Never mention the boyfriend. That is her problem not yours. You're going to be tempted to say, "So, what's the deal with Bill" Don't freaking do it. Not your deal, it's all about her.
3. On that note, never ask about yourself. Always assume that she is interested, and she usually will be.
4. Give her the gift of missing you. You'll have a lot more success having her chase you, than you chasing her. She already has something that she can get anytime. The reason why she is attracted to you, is that you are a challenge. Don't forget that.
5. Realize that your mind will play tricks on you. You never like her as much as you think you do. You only like her because you can't have her. Keep that in mind at all times.
6. Have guidelines. Decide where you draw the line, married, separated, live-in boyfriend, casual boyfriend, engaged, etc.

Hope this helps.

Romeo
 

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Originally posted by MRomeo99
I wouldn't recommend going after girls with boyfriends, but you'd be amazed what they will do and not think twice about it.

A few things that will help.

1. Be like a feather, fun and light. Don't get all serious on them, they have a boyfriend for that. Be a blast to be around, never take anything seriously. If you're not having fun, you're not going to get very far.
2. Never mention the boyfriend. That is her problem not yours. You're going to be tempted to say, "So, what's the deal with Bill" Don't freaking do it. Not your deal, it's all about her.
3. On that note, never ask about yourself. Always assume that she is interested, and she usually will be.
4. Give her the gift of missing you. You'll have a lot more success having her chase you, than you chasing her. She already has something that she can get anytime. The reason why she is attracted to you, is that you are a challenge. Don't forget that.
5. Realize that your mind will play tricks on you. You never like her as much as you think you do. You only like her because you can't have her. Keep that in mind at all times.
6. Have guidelines. Decide where you draw the line, married, separated, live-in boyfriend, casual boyfriend, engaged, etc.

Hope this helps.

Romeo
Yes, it does help. Thanks!
 

ShizamDaMan

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
If the couple is not having relationship problems, I will not try and take the girl away. There's something called respect guys. Use it.
Amen dude. Especially when there are tons of hot SINGLE girls out there for the taking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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